[Cover letter accompanying resolution sent snail mail on PTAVE stationery to each of 272 Catholic bishops in the U.S.]
Parents and Teachers Against Violence in Education
P.O. Box 1033, Alamo CA 94507-7033
Tel.: (925) 831-1661 FAX: (925) 838-8914 E-mail: firstname.lastname@example.org
Web site: Project NoSpank
PTAVE is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization
June __, 2006
Dear Bishop ________:
With regard to the US Catholics Bishops' existing program against domestic violence, we respectfully invite the
leaders of the US Catholic Conference of Bishops to broaden the usual interpretation of “domestic violence” so
that it includes violent treatment of children. Children, after all, are part of the domestic partnership — a key part,
we believe — and violence toward them warrants the same serious attention as violence between spouses. It’s not a separate or lesser issue.
Dr. Murray Straus, Co-Director of the Family Research Laboratory at the University of New Hampshire, has
A society with little or no hitting of children is likely to result in fewer people who are alienated, depressed, or suicidal, and in fewer violent marriages. The potential benefits for the society as a whole are equally great. These include lower crime rates, especially for violent crimes; increased economic productivity; and less money spent on controlling or treating crime and mental illness... A society that brings up children by caring, humane, and non-violent methods is likely to be less violent, healthier, and wealthier.
More than half a century of research on the subject of child development, and the good example of countless
families who raise their children in peace, love and gentleness, confirm Dr. Straus’s claim.
Please examine the enclosed draft resolution. We invite you to incorporate it into your campaign against domestic
violence. Feel free to improve upon it or use it as it stands.
The ministry of Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, initiated a new beginning for mankind. When He preached, “love one another,” and admonished us never to “offend little children,” that represented a radical departure from the old ways.
We hope you will decide that our proposal to advance the protection of children is compatible with the tenets of
Christ’s ministry, and that it warrants inclusion in your program against domestic violence.
Thank you for your kind consideration.
Members of the PTAVE Board of Directors: Laurie A. Couture, M.Ed., LMHC; Al Crowell, M.S., MFT; Peggy
Dean, RN; Madeleine Y. Gómez, Ph.D.; Mitch Hall; Tom Johnson; Susan Lawrence; Isabelle Allgood Neal; Viviane
Jordan Riak, Executive Director
on the Nonviolent
Treatment of Children
WHEREAS Jesus Christ, the Prince of Peace, taught that children are spiritual
beings close to God and that whatever we do to the least among us we do to Him;
WHEREAS children’s development as social beings is largely determined by the
quality of treatment they receive from their primary caretakers and as a result of
the examples to which they are exposed within the context of the family;
WHEREAS corporal punishment teaches children that it is acceptable for family
members to resolve interpersonal conflicts by hitting one another;
WHEREAS research shows that 25% of infants are hit before they are 6 months
old, and that the majority of infant and toddler abuse-related injuries and fatalities
are the end result of punishment gone awry;
WHEREAS current research on the development of the human brain proves
conclusively that: a) the child’s brain is use-dependent, b) what is done to a child in
the first three years (respect and love or hitting and humiliation) becomes a part of
the structure of the brain, and strongly influences whether a child will become
empathic or violent, and c) hitting, especially of the youngest, helps to produce
emotionally mutilated, unempathic, cruel adults;
WHEREAS the adoption of policies against corporal punishment of children has
proved effective in reducing the incidence of child abuse, and as of June 2006, 16
countries give children legal protection against assault and battery equal to that of
WHEREAS pediatric health professionals, mental health professionals and child
development experts worldwide oppose the use of corporal punishment of
WHEREAS the only hope that we will truly break the cycle of domestic violence
lies in the adoption of nonviolent methods of childrearing;
THEREFORE BE IT RESOLVED that the US Conference of Catholic Bishops
incorporates into its current program to counter domestic violence a standing
admonition to all parishioners to refrain from the use of corporal punishment
BE IT FURTHER RESOLVED that the US Conference of Catholic Bishops
urges parishes to make available to parishioners information, guidance and
instruction on positive, nonviolent parenting methods.