My analysis of the literature on this topic has led me to conclude that spanking:A review article by Grusec and Goodnow (1994) in Developmental Psychology on parenting discipline techniques covers much of these issues.
- distracts children from focusing on the nature of the misdeed --instead it refocuses them on the pain inflicted thereby reducing the possibility that children will understand why their act was wrong
- prevents the situation from becoming a learning/teaching situation because the child now focuses on the pain inflicted instead of the nature of the misdeed
- often increases humiliation in the child
- often lowers self esteem
- provides a confusing message to the child because one transgression (inflicting harm on another person) is dealt with by the same transgression (inflicting harm on another person)
- exaggerates the unilateral nature of the adult-child relationship and diminishes the reciprocal nature--so important for moral development
- inhibits the opportunity to teach the child what makes an act wrong by removing them from the situation
- turns the child from instigator to victim thereby altering the roles in the situation and making it more complicated.
Melanie Killen
Dept. of Human Development
University of Maryland, College Park
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For a comprehensive examination of this issue, see RESEARCH AND INFORMED EXPERT OPINION Experts cited: American Academy of Pediatrics, E. Barker, D. Bakan, A. Einstein, H. Falk, I. Hyman, T. Gordon, P. Greven, W. Grier & P. Cobbs, A. Haeuser, A. Maurer, K. Menninger, A. Montagu, A. Miller, J. Prescott, B. Spock, M. Straus, R. Welsh, and others. (56 files)