Chapter 14
DEMYSTIFYING THE DEFENSES OF
CORPORAL PUNISHMENT *
By Murray A. Straus
Family Research Laboratory, University of New Hampshire
Durham, NH 03824 603-862-2594 murray.straus@unh.edu
Contents
A. DEFENSES BASED ON THE PRESUMED GREATER EFFICACY OF CP
- If My Dad Hadn't Taken Me Over His Knee, I Would Be In Big Trouble Now
- Spanking Is Needed As A Back-Up Or Last Resort...4
- The "Eight Strongest Studies" Demonstrate "Beneficial Outcomes" Of CP
- "Authoritative" Parents Use CP And Their Children Have The Best Outcomes
- Parents Spank In Countries Such As Japan That Have Low Crime Rates
B. DEFENSES BASED ON THE BELIEF THAT SPANKING "IN MODERATION" BY LOVING
PARENTS IS NOT HARMFUL
- I Was Spanked and I'm OK
- If CP Makes Things Worse, Why Does Misbehavior Decrease As Children Grow Older?
C. DEFENSES BASED ON PROBLEMS PRESUMED TO RESULT FROM LESS USE OF CP
- Since CP Has Been Abolished In Schools, Discipline Has Declined And School Violence
Is Up
- Crime By Youth Is Up Because Parents Are Not Spanking
- No-Spanking Means No Discipline And Children Running Wild
D. DEFENSES BASED ON PRESUMED IMPRACTICALITY OF ENDING CP ...10
- Low Education Parents Lack the Cognitive And Linguistic Skills Needed To Avoid CP ... 10
- Spanking Is Necessary Because Toddlers Don’t Understand Explanations And
Reasoning
- “Never Spank” Is A Negative Approach And Won’t Work. It Is Better To Use A Positive
Approach And Teach Alternatives
- Spanking Is Universal And Can't Be Dealt With By Policies Or Laws
E DEFENSES BASED ON THE IDEA THAT SPANKING IS NOT THE REAL PROBLEM
- The Real Problem Is Bad Parenting
- The Important Issue Is The Overall Pattern Of Parent Behavior
- The Link Between Spanking And Mental Health Problems Is Genetic
- Overlap Of Corporal Punishment And Physical Abuse
F. CULTURAL RELATIVISM DEFENSES
- CP Is Not Harmful If It Is Perceived As A Legitimate Exercise Of Parental Authority
- CP Is Appropriate In The Context Of African American Culture And Life Circumstance
G. STATISTICAL AND METHODOLOGICAL DEFENSES
- Spanking Is A Response To Misbehavior Rather Than A Cause Of Misbehavior
- CP By Itself Has Only A Small Effect And Is Not Worth Worrying About
- There Is No Evidence That “Moderate” CP, Used Only Rarely, Has Harmful Effects
- We Should Wait For More Conclusive Research Before Advising Parents To Never
Spank... 16
- If All Children Are Spanked, It Is A Constant and Cannot Explain Anything
- Inadequate Controls For Other Variables
- The Effect Size Is Too Small To Make A Difference
- Even Prospective Research Does Not Prove A Causal Relation
- The Results May Be Due To Recall Bias
H. OTHER DEFENSES
- The Bible Tells Parents To Spank
- We Should Focus on More Important And Crucial Threats To Children Such As
Poverty And Racism
* This chapter is a publication of the Family Research Laboratory, University of New
Hampshire, Durham, NH 03824. See the Laboratory web page (http://unhinfo.unh.edu/frl) for a
program description and publications list. It is a pleasure to express appreciation to members of
the 1999-2000 Family Research Laboratory Seminar for valuable comments and suggestions.
The work was supported by National Institute of Mental Health grant T32MH15161 and the
University of New Hampshire.
The preceding chapters make clear that public opinion and an increasing number of
parents have shifted away from corporal punishment (CP). As a result, those who continue to
favor corporal punishment now have had to defend what was once a taken-for granted and near
universal belief. As a result, CP has become the focus of a sometimes-intense debate (see
Chapter 1). The debate has taken place in scientific journals (Friedman, Schonberg, and
Sharkey 1996), in the mass media (Lemonick and Park 1997), and in the courts (Associated
Press 1997). The purpose of this chapter is to show that most of the arguments used in this
debate to defend CP do not hold up under scrutiny, and that others are no more valid than
equally plausible arguments against CP.
Many of the defenses of CP analyzed in this chapter seem on cursory examination to be
scientifically sound. Consequently, even social scientists who are opposed to CP are likely to
wonder if they are really correct in opposing CP. One example is Robert Larzelere’s review of
the literature on the effects of CP (Larzelere 1996). He winnowed the many studies down to the
“eight strongest studies” and concluded that they all show “beneficial effects.” However, when
one reads the actual studies, what they show is that, without exception, non-corporal methods
were equally effective (see section A3 of this chapter).
Altogether, the chapter discusses 32 defenses of CP, grouped under eight headings. I
do not anticipate that many readers will read all 32. It is just too much. Instead, the chapter is
intended to be a reference source; that is, as a place to look up a particular defense of CP, not
a document to be read from start to finish. I suggest using the Table of Contents to locate
defenses of interest. In addition, because few readers will examine all 32 defenses, some
redundancies were left. For example, the fear that children who are not spanked will be out of
control and engage in delinquency and adult crime has been almost an article of faith in
American culture. Some of the ways this idea is expressed are dealt with in the defenses A2
and B1, 2, and 3.
A. DEFENSES BASED ON THE PRESUMED GREATER EFFICACY OF CP
A1. If My Dad Hadn't Taken Me Over His Knee, I Would Be In Big Trouble Now
(Insert Figure 14-1 about here)
If “big trouble” means being convicted of a serious crime, Figure 14-1 shows that when
parents use CP to try to straighten out a son, the probability of crime later in the child’s life is
increased. The data are for a sample of boys in a “high risk” urban area who were followed for
35 years (McCord 1991). This is the kind of environment in which parents often feel that they
need to use “strict discipline” (i.e., CP) to protect their children. But rather than protecting them,
Figure 14-1 shows a much higher rate of criminal convictions for the boys whose parents used
CP. A similar boomerang effect is also shown in Chapters 5 through 9.
Why does CP increase the probability of delinquency and crime? Several processes are
involved. For example, Chapter 6 shows that CP undermines the bond between a child and his
or her parents. That bond is extremely important in motivating children to heed what their
parents have to say. Another process is illustrated in Chapter 9 and 10. Those studies show
that CP slows down mental development and then reduces educational attainment. The
importance of this is that not doing well in school is a major risk factor for delinquency.
Of course, there are instances in which CP does seem to have “straightened out” a
delinquent child. But it should not be assumed that the change for the better was the result of
the CP. Studies of juvenile delinquency show that crucial elements in delinquency prevention
include a combination of clear and consistent parental rules and parental monitoring and love
and support (Sampson and Laub 1993a). If the parents had shown the same level of love,
concern, and involvement; had laid down clear rules, kept tabs on the child’s behavior; and had
used non-violent methods of discipline when those rules were broken, the outcome is likely to
have been even better.
What about adding spanking to “good parenting”? The studies summarized in section
E1 indicate that when parents spank, if they also provide love and support, are consistent in
stating and enforcing rules and monitor children, the probability of later delinquency and
psychological problems is reduced, but spanking remains associated with an increased
probability subsequent misbehavior and psychological problems (see chapters 5, 6, and 7).
A2. Spanking Is Needed As A Back-Up Or Last Resort
Even parents who are not in favor of CP usually feel that there may be rare occasions
when it is necessary. Many parents say, “I don’t believe in spanking, but sometimes there is no
alternative. You can’t let a toddler run out in the street and you can’t let a child get away with
things.“ The research evidence shows that this is a myth.
To understand what the research says about this belief, it is necessary to distinguish
between the short-run or immediate-situation effectiveness, intermediate-term effectiveness
such as the subsequent 8 hours, and long-term effects such as months or years later.
The immediate-situation effectiveness of spanking is not in dispute. However, non-violent
control strategies, such as explaining to the child, depriving a privilege, or just walking up
to a child and saying “No” or “Stop,” or putting a child back in a time out chair, work just as well
in the immediate situation (Day and Roberts 1983; Larzelere, Sather, Schneider, Larson, and
Pike 1998; Larzelere, Schneider, Larson, and Pike 1996; LaVoie 1974; Roberts and Powers
1990).
The short-run effectiveness of spanking is also no better than the effectiveness of
alternatives. Figure 14-2 shows that a typical 2-year old is likely to repeat whatever misbehavior
is corrected within the same day, regardless of the method of discipline (none of the differences
between modes of correction are statistically significant). Or putting it another way, with
toddlers, all methods of correction, including spanking, have a very high short-run failure rate.
The “recidivism rate” for toddler misbehavior is about 80% within the same day and 50% within
two hours regardless of whether spanking or some other corrective step has been used
(Larzelere, Schneider, Larson and Pike 1996). For some children and on some occasions for all
children, it is within two minutes.
As for long-term effects, the research clearly shows that non-violent disciplinary
strategies work better. This was shown in chapters 5, 6, and 7 for juvenile violence and
delinquency (see also Figure 14-1 and (Gunnoe and Mariner 1997); and in Chapters 8 and 9 for
violence and other crime by adults and much other research (see also Chart 14-1 Brezina 1999;
Gunnoe and Mariner 1997; Simons, Lin, and Gordon 1998; Straus, Sugarman, and Giles-Sims
1997). On average CP boomerangs and results in an increase in misbehavior. In addition, CP
has many harmful long-term side effects including an increased probability of depression
(DuRant, Getts, Cadenhead, and Emans 1995; Straus 1994), substance abuse, and suicide
(Straus and Kaufman Kantor 1994), and a slower rate of cognitive development and a lower
probability of graduating from college (see chapters 10 and 11). Finally, non-corporal modes of
control also have side effects, but they are likely to be positive, such as a better-developed
conscience (Sears, Maccoby, and Levin 1957), higher self-esteem (Coopersmith 1967), and a
closer bond between the child and the parent (see Chapter 7).
A3. The "Eight Strongest Studies" Demonstrate "Beneficial Outcomes" Of CP
The review of research on CP by Larzelere (Larzelere 1996) purports to show that “the
eight strongest studies” found that CP has a beneficial effect. Because the review was
published in a recognized journal and seems to reflect a careful evaluation of a large number of
studies, it is important to examine the degree to which the conclusion of “beneficial outcomes”
for CP is justified. To do this, it is again necessary to distinguish between short-run and long-term
outcomes of CP (see the discussion of immediate-situation, short-run and long-term
effectiveness of CP in section A3). Moreover, the crucial question is whether the outcomes from
using CP are superior to the outcomes associated with non-violent discipline strategies.
Short-Term Effectiveness. Seven of the “the eight strongest studies” refer to short-term
compliance with a parental request. Of these seven, five compared CP with alternatives. All five
found the alternatives to be just as “beneficial” as CP. For example, Day & Roberts (1983)
compared spanking as a back-up for leaving a time-out chair with placing the child in a room with a
waist-high barrier held across the door for one minute. They found that "both spank and barrier
procedures were equally effective at increasing compliance" (p. 141), and that "There was no
support for the necessity of the physical punishment….” (p. 150). A replication (Roberts and
Powers 1990) obtained the same results. Of course, taken literally, Larzelere is correct in saying
that these studies found “beneficial outcomes” in the sense of the spanked children complied
with the parental requests. But I think it is misleading to not have more clearly stated that non-corporal
discipline worked just as well.
Long-Term Effects. Only one of the eight “strongest” studies was about long-term effects
(Bernal, Duryee, Pruett, and Burns 1968). It does show a beneficial effect of spanking. However,
it takes a leap of faith in CP to regard it as a “strong” study. It is about a single case. Moreover,
that case was a child with severe conduct disorder, and possibly schizophrenia. So even that
one case does not provide information that applies to children in general. Most important of all,
only a minor part of the intervention was the use of CP. The major part was training the mother in
how to respond appropriately, such as when to not take the bait provided by this child’s
misbehavior. The mother was also trained to reinforce positive behaviour and to issue commands
confidently and consistently. Thus spanking was confounded with other interventions and the
study provides no evidence that the spanking part of the intervention was what improved the child’s
behaviour. In fact, the intervention might have been even more effective if the spanking part of the
intervention had been omitted.
Larzelere also reviewed ten prospective studies and 17 retrospective studies. He
summarizes the prospective studies as follows: “Three (30%) found predominantly detrimental
effects, whereas the other seven (70%) found predominantly neutral outcomes. In short, the
results were either no benefit or determent. Of the retrospective studies, nine (53% of the 17) r
found predominantly detrimental outcomes, 7 (41%) found predominantly neutral outcomes, and
1 (6%) found predominantly beneficial outcomes.” So, contrary to Larzeler’s implication of
beneficial effects, examination of the actual studies, reveals that none of the 10 prospective
studies and only one of the 17 retrospective studies found a beneficial outcome. Moreover,
there were substantial percentages (30% and 53% with detrimental outcomes).
The New Prospective Studies. Since the publication of Larzelere’s review, almost a
revolution has occurred in research on the effects of CP. There are now five prospective
studies. All show that the long-term effect of CP is counterproductive in the sense of higher
rates of misbehavior two and 4 years later for children who were spanked versus lower rates for
children whose parents avoided CP (Gunnoe and Mariner 1997; Straus, Sugarman and Giles-Sims
1997), or that CP had harmful side effects, including slowing the rate of children’s cognitive
development ((Straus and Paschall 1999) and violence by adolescent boys towards their parents
(Brezina 1999) or towards a dating partner (Simons, Lin and Gordon 1998). These studies are
summarized in the concluding chapter to the 2 nd edition of Beating The Devil Out Of Them
(Straus 2000b).
A4. "Authoritative" Parents Use CP And Their Children Have The Best Outcomes
Diana Baumrind (1996) classified the parents in her prospective study of 32 Children into
three groups: Permissive, Authoritarian, and Authoritative. The children of the Authoritative
parents were the best behaved and best adjusted. Baumrind defends CP by pointing out that
the Authoritative parents used CP. She implies that this was part of what made them effective
parents. However, she has never published any results on the use of CP by these parents. I do
not doubt that they used CP, but my guess is that if she were to publish that data, it would show
that all three groups used CP, and that the Authoritative parents did it less than the two other
groups.
My interpretation of the use of CP by the authoritative parents is that the better outcome
of the children of Authoritative parents occurred despite their using CP. If and when Baumrind
publishes the correlation it will be an example of a “spurious correlation.” These children did well
because an Authoritative style of parenting includes being supportive and responsive to children
while also exercising firm, loving, control. These are characteristics that have repeatedly been
shown to be beneficial for children. The children of the Authoritative parents might have done
even better had the parents followed an Authoritative approach while also avoiding CP. This is
an easily tested hypothesis. I described it in a letter to Diana Baumrind in the early 1990's. She
has had ample time, and also a grant to cover the costs of testing the spurious correlations
hypothesis, but has not.
A5. Parents Spank In Countries Such As Japan That Have Low Crime Rates
The idea that the low crime rate in countries such as Japan is related to their use of CP
presumes that parents in the US do not spank; whereas, as shown in Chapter 2, 94% of
parents of toddlers spank and they do so frequently. Moreover, CP does not cease on average
for American children until age 13, and one out of four still experience CP at age 16. Thus, it
would be more accurate to change this to “Parents in societies such as the USA spank
frequently and they have high crime rates.
Beyond the erroneous factual basis and erroneous logic of this defense, not much more
can be said because there has been no study comparing the amount of CP in Japan and the
USA. Probably a number of things combine to produce the low crime rate in Japan. One may
be what can be called “attachment parenting, “including extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping,
and carrying the baby close to mother [Estrada, 1987 #5134; Conroy, 1980 #5132; Hess, 1987
#5133]. Another possibility is the close supervision and monitoring of children and the degree
of social control characteristic of Japanese society as a whole. Adults as well as children are
closely monitored and supervised by informal social networks and the police. I lived in Japan for
a month and it was a wonderful experience. However, I would not want to live permanently in
such a closely supervised society. If the price is more crime, that is a price I and most other
Americans are willing to pay – at least up to a certain point. A society, in effect, chooses the
balance between freedom and order. In the US, we opt for more freedom and we pay the price
with less order. Japan is moving to more freedom, and that will contribute to more crime. In the
US, there has recently been a movement towards more survailance and more order and that
may have contributed to the decline in crime since the mid 1990s.
B. DEFENSES BASED ON THE BELIEF THAT SPANKING "IN MODERATION"
BY LOVING PARENTS IS NOT HARMFUL
B1. I Was Spanked and I'm OK
One of the most frequent and intuitively attractive defenses of CP is “I was spanked and
I’m OK.” Let us start by assuming that the “I’m OK” part is correct. However, the intended
implication – that therefore spanking is OK – is not correct. The correct implication is that the
person saying this is one of the lucky ones who were not adversely affected by CP. To
understand this, one has to first understand that CP is a “risk factor,” not a one-to-one cause.
This means that the more CP experienced, the greater the risk or probability of a harmful side
effect. Fortunately, as with other risk factors, CP does not guarantee a harmful effect. The
research evidence indicates that most people who were spanked are OK, but as shown
repeatedly in this book, when compared to others, the percent who are OK is lower than among
those who were rarely or never spanked.
A well-known example of a risk factor is smoking. People who smoke more than a pack
a day have about a one in three chance of dying of lung cancer or some other smoking-related
disease (Matteson, Pollack, and Cullen 1987). That same statistic also means that two thirds of
heavy smokers will not die of it. They will be able to say, as millions said when the research on
smoking first appeared, “I’ve smoked all my life and I’m OK.” The “I’m OK” part will be correct
two-thirds of the time, but the implication that therefore smoking is ok is not. The real
implication, as I said, is that they are one of the lucky ones.
Even the “I’m OK” part of this argument is often wrong. In this context, “I’m OK” refers to
being able to perceive that a problem results from spanking. The idea that spanking could
cause depression just doesn’t cross anyone’s mind. However, there is now excellent research
linking spanking with an increased probability of depression (DuRant, Getts, Cadenhead,
Emans, and Woods 1995; Holmes and Robins 1987; Kessler and Magee 1994; Straus 2000a).
Of course, many other biological and social factors increase the risk of depression, so it would
be equally wrong to say that someone suffering from depression must have been spanked a lot.
B2. If CP Makes Things Worse, Why Does Misbehavior Decrease As Children Grow Older?
The explanation for the seeming paradox that children who are spanked do, on average,
improve their behavior over time lies in the fact that, as children grow older, so does their ability
to understand, to reason, and to control their behavior. Spanking and other trauma slows down
development of these abilities, but except in very rare cases, not enough bring development to a
halt. The abilities of spanked children improve with age despite the spanking. This is illustrated
by the study in Chapter 10 showing that CP is associated with a slowing of mental development.
The fact that the children in the high CP group fell behind the cognitive development of the no-CP
group by six points does not indicate that, after two years, the children in the high CP had
less cognitive ability than at the start of the study or that they got dumber. On the contrary, the
children in the high CP group, like all normal children, increased their cognitive skills
tremendously in those two years, but less than the children who were not spanked. The same
principle applies to rates of misbehavior. On average, children whose parents spank, like all
normal children, are much better behaved at age 4 or 6 than at age 2, but children whose
parents spank, on average, fall behind the behavioral improvement of children who experienced
little no CP.
Actually, the process is more subtle than the previous two paragraphs suggest. Children
do learn from CP, especially when it is consistently applied, just as they learn from explanations,
reasoning, and non-CP discipline when they are consistently used. The difference is that the
learning process is slower when parents use CP than when they rely on other teaching
strategies.
C. DEFENSES BASED ON PROBLEMS PRESUMED TO RESULT FROM LESS USE OF CP
C1. Since CP Has Been Abolished In Schools, Discipline Has Declined And School Violence Is
Up
The idea that abolishing CP in schools has caused the behavior problems experienced in
American schools is another fantasy in the minds of those favoring CP. The research evidence
shows the opposite.
In fact, CP continues to be used in schools in about half the states. Although
disciplinary problems may have increased in schools, it is because of many crime-enhancing
changes in American society (see Blumstein, 200), not because CP is no longer used in half the
states. I have done two studies comparing the rates of school violence in states that do not use
CP with states that authorize CP in schools under very limited conditions and those that
authorize wide use of CP. The first of these studies (Straus 2000a, p. 112) used data from the
1980s and found that the more CP was authorized, the higher the rate of violence and vandalism
by students. The second study (see Chapter 1) was done when the 1999 Columbine, Colorado
school shootings, led some editorial writers and some members of state legislatures to call for a
return to CP in the schools. It too found that the more CP was authorized, the higher the rate of
homicides by juveniles. Both these studies can be interpreted as illustrating the effect of the
modeling of violent behavior by persons in positions of moral authority.
C2. Crime By Youth Is Up Because Parents Are Not Spanking
The belief that crime has increased because parents no longer spank is based on the
false premise that crime by youth is increasing. In fact, crime by both adults and youth
decreased rapidly since the mid 1990s (Blumstein, 2000). In response, defenders of CP could
point out that even the major decreases in the 1990s brought the rates back only to about where
they were in the 1960s. This, in turn can be countered by the fact that, a generation ago, violent
crime rates were already so high, and Americans were so concerned about the high level of
violence, that President Johnson appointed a national commission in 1968 to investigate the
cause and to recommend steps to reduce the level of violence in the United States. The
importance of this bit of history is that in 1960s almost everyone believed in CP and most
parents used CP, even with teen-agers (see Chapter 13). So, in 1968, when CP was nearly
universal, crime rates were just as high as they are now.
These fluctuations in crime rates result from a multiplicity of causes. CP is one of those
causes. The research evidence in this book shows that the more CP, the greater the probability
a child will be delinquent. If so, the decreasing use of CP during this period contributed to
decreasing rather increasing crime. If that is the case, why did crime rates go up during part of
this period? It is because CP is only one of a large number of things that influence the crime
rate and the crime reduction effect of less CP is not sufficient to overcome the many other crime-enhancing
factors. Here are some examples:
- The growth in unemployment, especially among poor inner-city youth and young men. A
stable job may be the most important crime prevention known (Anderson 1999)
- The growth of illegal businesses, especially the crack epidemic which involved many
youth, and provided them with guns (Blumstein, 2000)
- Decline in neighborhood cohesion and monitoring of children and lack of social ties and
trust, crime increases (Sampson, Raudenbush, and Earls 1997)
- The increased exposure of children to the trauma of parental divorce and the personal
and financial stress of bringing up children without the aid of a partner, as well as
the personal loss experienced by children (Wells and Rankin 1991).
- The growth of teen births and births to poor unmarried mothers who, more often than
other parents, lack the material and social resources to provide an adequate
home environment (???)
- Poverty -- one out of five American children grow up in poverty. Messner et al (2000)
for example, found that the rate of homicides by children goes up when the
percent of children in poverty increases and goes down when child poverty
decreases
- Endless hours watching TV violence and practicing killing in the form of video games
(Anderson and Dill, 2000)
- Public distrust of the police and failure of the police to keep public order (???)
- The personal trauma and example of growing up in a family in which there is violence
between the parents Geffner, Holden etc book, 19???> (Straus 1992)
- Other examples of incivility and self-centeredness set by parents and adults (???)
- Adult violence. The rate of violence by youth in a neighborhood, region, or nation
mirrors the rate of adult violence (see Figure 14-3).
Consequently, ending
juvenile violence means adults must set an example of non-violence.
(Insert Figure 14-3 about here ---Not yet ready)
The list can go on and on. If CP was to be completely eliminated, and everything else
remained the same, crime would be less frequent but the rate would still be high because all the
other causes of crime remained. Thus, a major decrease in the juvenile crime rates requires
doing something about a large number of these risk factors for crime. No one of them, including
CP, is sufficient by itself to bring about a major change or to overcome increases in the others.
Consequently, in the period from the mid 1960s to the mid 1990s when so many of the risk
factors were increasing, the reduction in CP was not nearly strong enough to outweigh the
crime-promoting changes in American society during that period.
C3. No-Spanking Means No-Discipline, Permissivenss, And Children Running Wild
If no-spanking meant no-discipline, the research evidence would favor spanking.
Children do need clear rules and expectations, consistency in enforcing the rules, and parents
who do not tolerate disrespect for others. But no-spanking does not mean no-discipline or
“permissiveness” in the sense of tolerating misbehavior (Straus 2000a, pp 157-159). Moreover,
the research evidence in this book, together with the results from many other studies, clearly
indicates that children whose parents use only non-violent modes of discipline are, on average,
better behaved than the children of parents who spank (see Chapters ?? and ??).
Diana Baumrind is a leading child psychologist who tries to equate no-CP with
“permissiveness,” i.e., no-discipline (Baumrind 1996), but she presents no research evidence.
She is right to be concerned about no-discipline. But contrary to what Baumrind implies,
researchers and organizations opposed to spanking also believe that rules and discipline are
necessary. One of these organizations even incorporates that idea in its name – the Discipline
(see their web site: http://www.stophitting.com).
D. DEFENSES BASED ON THE PRESUMED IMPRACTICALITY OF ENDING CP
D1. Low Education Parents Lack the Cognitive And Linguistic Skills Needed To Avoid CP
The idea that abolishing spanking would be harmful to children of low education and low
income parents Larzelere (19??) is based on assumption that these parents lack the verbal skills
needed to adequately control children by cognitive methods alone, or even enough space in the
household to use strategies such as sending a child to his or her room. The dubious nature of this
argument is suggested by the results of research showing that parents in non-violent tribal societies
do not use CP (Montague 1978). Because these societies are also non-literate, it demonstrates
that not even literacy is needed to bring up a child without hitting.
There is also a cruel irony in the idea of allowing use of CP by low education parents
because, as shown in Chapters 10 and 11, CP slows down children’s mental development. CP
is also associated with a reduced chance of graduating from college. And, among those who do
graduate, CP is associated with a reduced chance of securing a well paying job. Thus, as Holly
Gimple and I concluded “The demand for workers in low level occupations who can adapt to the
monotony of unskilled factory work is disappearing. Jobs which require a strong back and
obedience to authority are becoming so rare that men and women who, in a previous historic
era, could have a stable place in society may find no place in the post-industrial labor market.
CP, which helped socialize previous generations of factory workers may now be helping to
create the next generation of the chronically unemployed” (Straus and Gimpel 1994). It is
possible that children of low socioeconomic status parents will be the ones to gain the most from
being brought up without spanking.
D2. Spanking Is Necessary Because Toddlers Don’t Understand Explanations And Reasoning
Contrary to the belief that “you can’t reason with a toddler,” there are many studies
showing that toddlers do reason, engage in moral reasoning, and have empathy for others, for
example (Aronfreed 1976; Edwards 1980; Hetherington and Parke 1999; Hoffman 1984;
Kochanska 1995; Kochanska and Thompson 1997; Parke 1977; Rheingold 1982).
In addition to these formal studies, almost every parent who has had a toddler tell them
something is “not fair,” or had a toddler tell them "because he hit me" to explain why he is crying,
knows that children do understand explanations and reasoning, even though imperfectly. As this
chapter was being written, for example, a heavy snow forced cancellation of 1 st and 2 nd grade
classes for two of my grandchildren. One went to spend the day with a friend and other went
with his dad. However, the 3-year-old’s preschool was not canceled. He too wanted to go to a
friend’s house or go with his dad. He insisted on knowing why he could not. His parents
explained why he had to go to school -- in fact, several times. The conversation left no doubt
that Eric understood the reasons. He also understood the complex notion of fairness and found
that this was unfair. And he was right! However, understanding something and doing something
are not the same. Adults often fail to do what they know they should do, or do things they know
they should not do. This is even more true of children. So, parents have to be in charge on
things that matter. In this case Eric’s parents, while repeating the explanation, never wavered
from the fact that Eric was going to school that day. This example also illustrates the
combination of consistency and cognitively based strategies to influence and control the child,
which may be part of the explanation for the fact that children who are not spanked, on average
are better behaved (see Chapter ??) and experience faster cognitive development than other
children (see Chapter 10).
Finally, aside from the question of the rationality of toddlers, there are many non-violent
aversive sanctions, as well as non-aversive methods of shaping the behavior of child that are
equally effective in the short run and more effective in the long run (?? cite needed).
D3. “Never Spank” Is A Negative Approach And Won’t Work. It Is Better To Use A Positive
Approach And Teach Alternatives
The idea that you can’t tell parents not to spank and instead must focus on teaching
alternatives is a false choice. Both are needed, but to my surprise, an exclusive focus on
teaching alternatives and rejection of the idea that parents should be advised to never spank is
something I frequently hear from child maltreatment scholars and parent educators, including
some of the most distinguished. They reject the idea of telling parents to never spank, and also
no-spanking messages on milk cartons, on posters in pediatrician's offices, and a warning notice
on birth certificates. When I ask if they favor posters and warning notices about cigarettes, the
answer is almost always yes. They typically go on to explain that a “negative approach” will not
succeed for spanking because parents must first be taught alternatives. There are at least three
reasons for thinking this is a specious argument.
Although almost every parent can use additional skills in child management, there is no
research evidence that it takes such training to stop spanking. Consistent with the cultural
norms supporting CP, it is just presumed to be true. The same presumption is not applied to
whether prior training is needed before advising parents to never engage in psychological
attacks on children. It has not stood in the way of a “negative approach” to ending psychological
aggression as a means of discipline. We do not have misgivings about telling parents to never
call a child “a filthy pig” if the child spills food because we truly believe that psychological attacks
are a harmful mode of discipline. We apparently lack the same certainty that physical attacks,
such as slapping the hand of a child who spills food, is bad for children. The National
Committee for Prevention of Child Abuse conducted an excellent media campaign on
psychological attacks by parents that used a “negative” approach.” It featured a poster with the
face of sad child and the message “Stop using words that hurt.” But the NCPCA has never
feature a poster of a sad faced child, which says “Stop spanking. Other methods work better.“
D4 Spanking Is Universal And Can't Be Dealt With By Policies Or Laws
There are a few societies that do not use CP and they are also non-violent in other ways
(Frey, 199??; (Montague 1978). However, even if spanking were universal, if it is harmful it
should be the object of public policies to reduce or eliminate it. That is the approach we take
with other harmful universals such as jealously or murder. We do not use the fact that these are
universal to say that nothing should be done about them. The difference between spanking and
murder is not that one is a universal and the other is not, but that the presumed benefit of
spanking “when necessary” is a deeply embedded aspect of American culture. Consequently,
almost all Americans, including social scientists, doubt the wisdom of never hitting a child.
Indeed, this belief is so deeply embedded that they ignore the experimental and other evidence
showing that spanking on average is no more effective than non-violent modes of discipline; or
when the evidence cannot be ignored, a double standard is used to evaluate that evidence (see
Chapter 1).
E. DEFENSES BASED ON THE IDEA THAT SPANKING IS NOT THE REAL PROBLEM
E1. The Real Problem Is Bad Parenting
The idea that the real problem is a general pattern of “bad parenting” by parents who use
CP is based on the incorrect assumption that only bad or incompetent parents spank. If that
were the case, 94% of American parents would fall into the bad-parenting category because this
is the percent who spank toddlers (see Chapter 2).
In addition to the factual and logical error, the “bad-parenting” defense has not held up
under empirical testing. A number of studies have found that, even after taking into account
different aspects of the quality of parental care, CP is linked to child behavior problems. For
example, the first study listed in the following table controlled for the degree to which parents
were attached or close to the boys in the study. Even after taking that into account, Brezina
found that the more CP used by parents, the greater the probability of the child hitting the parent
during the one-year period covered by the study.
Study Problem Linked To CP Controlled For
Brezina (1999) Assault Of Parents Parental attachment
Durant (1995) Depression Family conflict
Gunnoe & Mariner (1997) Antisocial Behavior Praise, Rules
Larzelere (1986) Aggression Explanation
McCord Conviction for Serious crime Parental warmth
Simons et al (1998) Assaults On Dating Partners Parental involvement
Straus et al, Chapter 5 Antisocial Behavior Emotional support,
Cognitive stimulation
Straus & Paschall Chapter 10 Slow Cognitive Development Emotional support,
Cognitive stimulation
Straus & Donnelly (1994) Masochistic Sex Warmth, Monitoring,
Consistency, Reasoning
Turner & Finkelhor (1996) Psych Distress Parental support
All of the studies listed above found that, although controlling for quality of parental care
lessens the risk of harm from CP, CP remains related to child behavior problems. The same
finding applies to many other plausible alternative explanations. See section
F 4 on "Inadequate Controls For Other Variables."
E2. The Important Issue Is The Overall Pattern Of Parent Behavior
Defending CP by arguing that only the larger pattern of parental behavior makes a
difference has both a conceptual and a statistical basis. The conceptual basis is the idea that
CP is just one of many components in an overall variable identified by names such as harsh or
inadequate parenting. One of the reasons "just a symptom of bad parenting" is not likely to be
true, is that over 90% use corporal punishment with toddlers. No one knows what percent of
parents are harsh or incompetent, but 90% is not plausible. So, almost by definition, there must
be sizable number of good, loving, parents who spank.
The statistical bases for this defense of CP are factor analyses that reveal that CP is part
of a more general harsh discipline factor. The factor score or an additive scale using items in the
factor is used to create a scale to measure harsh discipline. Paradoxically, this prevents finding
out about corporal punishment per se. In a ten-item scale with an alpha of .75, the average
correlation of any one item with an overall scale score is about .25 (???). Thus, only 5% of the
variance in the corporal punishment item is explained by the scale score. Consequently, CP per se
could have antecedents and consequences that are different from the overall scale. Using a harsh
parenting factor scale score prevents investigating whether spanking by parents who are not
otherwise harsh, i.e. CP by warm and loving parents, has harmful side effects, and the
interaction of parental warmth and CP (Straus and Donnelly 1994). Moreover, “harsh discipline”
scales often confound ordinary CP with discipline tactics that are more appropriately
conceptualized as "abuse" (see for example the Maternal Punishment scale in McVoy (???),
This is not to say that a summary scale of harsh parenting is wrong. It permits investigating
the assumption that what matters for the child is the overall pattern. This is clearly a plausible and
important approach. However, it does not negate the value of also investigating specific
components of the factor such as corporal punishment. Factor analysis, for example, is widely
used to create scales to measure socioeconomic status. The difference is that specialists in social
stratification insist on the importance of also analyzing each of the specific components of a
socioeconomic status scale. Being in a high or low status occupation may have different effects
from high or low income even though both have a significant “factor loading” on an overall
socioeconomic status factor, just as corporal punishment has a significant loading on an overall
harsh parenting factor. Similarly, in research on cognitive stimulation by parents, it is important to
investigate both the effect of specific behaviors such as reading to a child, and also the
combined effect of many modes of cognitive stimulation. In short, the overall pattern of parent
behavior is extremely important but it is not an alternative to finding out about the main effects
and interactive effects of each part of the overall pattern, including CP. Both approaches are
needed.
E3. The Link Between Spanking And Mental Health Problems Is Genetic
Mental health problems, like almost all human behavior, are the result of the interaction
of genetic characteristics and life experiences. However, for genetics to explain the findings on
the mental health problems associated with CP, one has to assume that parents who spank
have genetic predispositions to the psychological and social problems associated with CP, and
that these predispositions also cause them to spank. For example, parents who spank might be
genetically disposed to aggressiveness, depression and antisocial behavior. Given the fact that
94% of parents spank, the idea that this reflects innate psychological problems is unlikely.
Rather than reflecting psychological problems, the high rate of CP reflects the combination of
cultural norms permitting and sometimes requiring CP and the fact that controlling and training
children is a difficult and often frustrating task. Moreover, even if spanking is associated with a
genetic predisposition for some types of problem behavior, such as aggressiveness, that does
not mean that learned behavior and reactions are unimportant. Both genetic and experiential
factors can make their own contributions.
There is also the possibility that the better behavior and faster cognitive development of
children whose parents never spank has a genetic component. The 94% spanking means that,
at best, that only 6% of parents never spank. That 6% could be genetically superior. It may
take special inborn qualities to buck the cultural norms and the advice from friends and relatives
to spank (Carson, 19??, Walsh, 19??). However, those special qualities could just as plausibly
be socially transmitted.
E4. Overlap Of Corporal Punishment And Physical Abuse
The confounding or overlap of CP with physical abuse is an important problem because
almost every parent who kicks or punches a child also engages in legal forms of hitting children
such as spanking and slapping. Consequently, what shows up as an effect of corporal
punishment might really be due to unknowingly including children in the sample who were
physically abused. Fortunately, there are studies that avoided this problem by removing from the
sample children whose parents exceeded ordinary corporal punishment. These studies, which
were restricted to children of parents who did engage in “physical abuse” found harmful side
effects for corporal punishment (see chapters 6, 7, and 8 and (Chapters 5, 6, and 7 MacMillan,
Boyle, Wong, Duku, Fleming, and Walsh 1999).
Other studies have isolated the effect of CP per se by categorizing parents into three
types: those who used entirely non-violent discipline strategies, those who used CP but did not
attack the child more severely, and those whose attacks were severe enough to be considered
physical abuse. These studies find that the effect of CP is parallel to the effect of physical
abuse. The main difference is that the “risk ratio” (the probability of the harmful effect occurring)
is lower for CP than for physical abuse (Strassberg, Dodge, Petit, and Bates 1994); Ulman &
Straus 2000 ??).
F. DEFENSES BASED ON CULTURAL RELATIVISM
F1. CP Is Not Harmful If It Is Perceived As A Legitimate Exercise Of Parental Authority
Gunnoe and Mariner (1997) defend CP by arguing that "…it is not spanking per se but
rather the context in which spanking occurs and the meaning that children ascribe to spanking
that predicts child outcomes." They suggest that, if the family and the cultural context lead
children to accept the legitimacy of CP, spanking will have no harmful effect. This “cultural
relativity” argument is used by African American defenders of CP such as Polite (1996). I have
been able to locate only two studies that provide direct empirical tests, as compared to offering it
as a plausible explanation. One of those studies was of Afro-Caribbean children in St. Kitts
(Rohner, Kean, and Cournoyer 1991). They found a significant direct relation between CP and
psychological adjustment problems. They did not find a significant mediating effect for children's
perception of the legitimacy of CP. However, the child's perception of CP as indicating rejection
by the parents mediated the effect of CP on the child's adjustment. A second study (Rohner,
Bourque, and Elordi 1996) controlled for the child's perception of the justness of the CP they
experienced and still found that CP was related to feelings of rejection, which in turn was related
to the child's adjustment. The fact that the relation of CP to maladjustment was mediated by the
child's perception of parental rejection provides information on one of the intervening processes
that explain the link between CP and child behavior problems. Since the child's perception of
rejection is itself undesirable, rather than disproving the harmful effects of CP, it adds to the
evidence.
F2. CP Is Appropriate In The Context Of African American Culture And Life Circumstance
Some African American social scientists (e.g. Polite 1996), and some who defend CP on
religious grounds (e.g. Larzelere 1993; Larzelere 1994) use the idea of cultural relativity
described in the previous paragraph to argue that efforts to end spanking will undermine the
effectiveness of African American parents. Moreover, because so many African Americans
believe in CP (see Chapter 12 and (Flynn 1996; Straus and Mathur 1996), they argue that no-spanking
advice amounts to an unethical imposition of cultural beliefs and values.
The empirical evidence is not that clear. Several studies found that CP is linked to social
and psychological problems among African American children (Rohner, Bourque and Elordi
1996; Rohner, Kean and Cournoyer 1991; Straus and Lauer 1992; Straus, Sugarman and Giles-Sims
1997). One study found a harmful effect for one of the two outcome variables studied, and
a positive effect for a second outcome (Gunnoe and Mariner 1997). Another study (Deater-Deckard,
Dodge, Bates, and Pettit 1996) found no relation between CP and behavior problems
among African American children.
A plausible interpretation of the two studies that found an interaction of CP with race is
that the effect of CP is moderated by the cultural legitimacy of CP in the African American
context. However, there is an alternative plausible interpretation starts from a closely related
assumption, which is that in the context of African American culture and life circumstances, CP
is virtually synonymous with discipline. In that context, no-spanking may mean no-discipline. If
that is correct, in view of the research on the importance of parental monitoring and control for
prevention of delinquency (Patterson, DeBaryshe, and Ramsey 1989; Sampson and Laub
1993b), it is no wonder that CP has no harmful effect or a positive effect among a group where
no-CP tends to mean no-discipline. This issue urgently needs further research. Such research
could include data to test both the no-spanking means no-discipline explanation and the cultural
legitimacy explanation. In the meantime, it is a sufficiently challenging goal to inform Euro-American
parents of the benefits to themselves and their children of avoiding CP.
G. STATISTICAL AND METHODOLOGICAL DEFENSES
As explained in Chapter 1, criticism of the methods used to obtain evidence in support of
a theory is a typical and essential part of all fields of science. Although a critical examination of
methods is a standard first reaction to any new evidence, it takes on added importance for
proponents of alternative theories who hope to indirectly bolster their position by attacking the
evidence for an alternative theory.
G1. Spanking Is A Response To Misbehavior Rather Than A Cause Of Misbehavior
The idea that spanking is usually a response to misbehavior is correct. However, that
does not mean that spanking cannot also be a cause of misbehavior. Spanking may stop
misbehavior in the immediate situation, but studies that have followed up large samples of
children show that CP has the long-term effect of increasing the probability of misbehavior, as
well as psychological and social problems. For example, the study in Chapter 5 of over 3,000
children shows that the more CP used during the first year of the study, the greater the tendency
for Antisocial Behavior to have increased two years later. The same tendency for CP to
boomerang was also found by three other recent prospective studies summarized in the 2 nd
edition of Beating The Devil Out Of Them (Brezina 1999; Gunnoe and Mariner 1997; Simons,
Lin and Gordon 1998; Straus and Paschall 1999; Straus, Sugarman and Giles-Sims 1997). All
of them controlled for the presence of the behavior problem at the time of the spanking and
found that the spanking, on average, was associated with a change for the worse two or more
years later.
G2. CP By Itself Has Only A Small Effect And Is Not Worth Worrying About
If, as indicated in the previous paragraph, ending CP by itself has only a small effect in
reducing the probability of psychological and social problems, a key question is whether
advocating no-spanking is worth the effort. Physical “abuse,” for example, is much more likely to
cause serious psychological and social problems than spanking. Perhaps it would be better to
focus on combating “physical abuse?” There is now a consensus among leading statisticians
and researchers that “small effect sizes” as conventionally measured, are often extremely
important (and McCartney, 19??; 19??). Here are two of the reasons why it is extremely
important to end ordinary “mild” CP.
Ending CP Is Part of Ending Physical Abuse. About 2/3 of cases of physical abuse
known to child protective services are the result of CP that has escalated out of control
[Kadushin, 1981 #4062; Straus, 1994 #4891]. Thus, ending CP and preventing physical abuse
are part of the same effort. Thirty years ago, David Gil, one of the pioneers in research on
physical abuse wrote: "Since culturally determined permissive attitudes toward the use of
physical force in child-rearing seem to constitute the common core of all physical abuse of
children in American society, systematic educational efforts aimed at gradually changing this
particular aspect of the prevailing child-rearing philosophy, and developing clear-cut cultural
prohibitions and legal sanctions against the use of physical force as a means for rearing
children, are likely to produce over time the strongest possible reduction of the incidence and
prevalence of physical abuse of children." (Gil 1970, p.141).
Cumulative Effect Is Large. It is a well established principle in public health that a risk
factor that increases the probability of a health problem by only a small amount (such as
spanking) can have a much greater impact on public health if it applies to a large part of the
population than a risk factor that, if present, increases the probability of a harmful effect by a
large amount (such as physical abuse) but which applies to a small number of people (Rose
1985; Rosenthal 1984). The following hypothetical example shows that ending CP will do more
to reducing the prevalence of depression than ending physical abuse.
G3. There Is No Evidence That “Moderate” CP, Used Only Rarely, Has Harmful Effects
At least two studies investigated the effect of mild corporal punishment, used only rarely.
Both these studies were of large and representative samples of children, Both also controlled
for other family and child characteristics. One is the study in Chapter 5 of antisocial behavior
and impulsiveness of almost a thousand children age 2 to 14. It compared children who were
never spanked with children spanked only once in the past six months. Even children who were
spanked only once in the past six months had slightly higher impulsiveness and antisocial
behavior scores compared to the never-spanked children.
The study in Chapter 10 of the relation of CP to the cognitive development of 1,506
children aged 2-4 and 5 to 9 measured CP in two sample weeks a year apart. Only 6.7% had
not experienced CP in either of two sample weeks. These unspanked children experienced the
most rapid cognitive development. The cognitive development of children who experienced
even one instance of CP in those two sample weeks was less rapid. Thus, even one instance of
CP in two weeks one year apart inhibited cognitive development, although by only a small
amount.
G4. We Should Wait For More Conclusive Research Before Advising Parents To Never-Spank
The idea that absolutely conclusive evidence of harmful side effects is needed before it is
ethical to advise parent to never spank (Larzelere, Baumrind, and Polite 1998) is contradicted by
standard clinical practice in pediatrics. Pediatricians advise parents to avoid a drug if there is
evidence that the drug they are using is likely to have harmful side effects when an equally
effective drug becomes available that does not have those side effects. CP is like the old drug.
Consequently, the abundance of evidence indicating that CP has many harmful side effects in
this book and in (Straus 2000a) in combination with the definitive evidence that other discipline
responses are just as effective in the short-run requires advising parents to not spank.
Also relevant is the principle that, if a procedure is shown to have a toxic effect under
some circumstances, the burden of proof shifts. When that is the case, it becomes the
obligation of those who favor the procedure under other circumstances to show that it is safe
and effective under those circumstances. As noted earlier, advocates of CP have retreated to
recommending CP only for younger children and explicitly warn against using CP with older
children. Thus, having accepted the evidence that CP is harmful for older children, they have
the obligation to provide empirical evidence that it is safe for younger children. The so-called
"beneficial effects" of CP with younger children emphasized by (Larzelere 1996) does not
provide that evidence because those effects refer to cessation of misbehavior, not to long-term
harmful side effects. Moreover, as noted earlier and in more detail below, non-corporal
strategies to stop misbehavior are equally beneficial in securing short-term compliance.
G5. If All Children Are Spanked, It Is A Constant and Cannot Explain Anything
Although a variable that does not vary, of course, cannot co-vary with some other
variable, that problem does not apply to research on CP for two reasons. First, despite the fact
that almost all children in the US are spanked as toddlers (94%), there is still great variation in
how often this occurs, in the severity of the blows, and in the number of years that parents
continue to spank. Thus CP is a parent behavior which varies greatly.
Second, even when examining the question of the effect of never spanking, although the
percentage is very small, there are enough parents who truly never use CP to demonstrate a
relationship. Suppose only one or two percent of parents truly never spank. With a large
enough sample, that is sufficient variance to determine if there is covariance with some
presumed harmful or beneficial effects of absolutely no-spanking. For example, the study in
Chapter 6 identified 189 children, who, at least according to the mothers, had never been
spanked. These children had the lowest average antisocial behavior scores and were the least
impulsive, even compared to children who were very rarely spanked. Another study that
identified a never-spanked group (MacMillan et al. 1999) found that they had the lowest rate of
psychiatric symptoms, even compared to those who were spanked only rarely.
G6. Inadequate Controls For Other Variables
Statistical controls for characteristics of the child and the parents are needed because a
link between corporal punishment and child behavior problems might be the result of other family
and parent characteristics that lead to both corporal punishment and child behavior problems.
For example, parents who physically attack each other are more likely to also hit their children
(Ross 1996; Straus, Gelles, and Steinmetz 1980) and what seems to be the effect of CP might
really be the effect of the violence of the parents to each other. To deal with this problem, the
empirical studies in this book and other cross-sectional studies controlled for many variables that
could be the “real cause” of the problems linked to corporal punishment. These controls include:
Social Characteristics of the Parents and Family
Educational level of parents
Income, including very low income
Racial/ethnic group
Single parent versus two parent families
Number of children in the family
Sex of the parent
Age of the parent
Parental Role Behaviors
Adequacy of parent’s supervision of children
Parental warmth and support
Whether parents established clear rules and expectations
Use of other disciplinary strategies such as time out
Parental consistency in discipline
Parental use of reasoning
Parental involvement and cognitive stimulation
Child Characteristics
Child’s birth-weight
Sex of the child
Age of the child
Child’s delinquency or antisocial behavior at Time 1
Child’s cognitive ability at Time 1
Child-to-parent bond
Psycho-social Problems
Conflict between the parents
Violence between the parents
Violence in family in which the parents grew up
Parental alcohol abuse
Parent attitudes approving violence
Whether the parent also engaged in more severe violence (“physical abuse”)
Depression of parents
No single study controlled for all of these possible confounds. However, it is a well
recognized scientific principle (sometimes called “triangulation Webb, Campbell, Schwartz,
Sechrest, and Belew Grove 1981) that valid conclusions are possible on the basis of cumulative
evidence from studies which, taken one by one, are not definitive. This is because the weak
point of one study may be dealt with in another study. I think we have reached the point of
triangulation concerning corporal punishment. There have been more than 80 studies
examining the effects of corporal punishment, and with rare exception, they have found harmful
long-term effects (Thompson In press).
G7. Biased Perception Explains the Findings
Biased perception could result in finding a relationship between CP and psychological
problems when, for example, the data on both CP a child behavior problem are both obtained
from a parent, or both obtained from a child. This could happen because parents or children
who are willing to report spanking may be more likely than other parents to also report behavior
problems. However, the fact that almost all parents of toddlers in the 1995 national survey
reported spanking in the past year, and other studies find that about 70% spanked in the last
week, and did so an average of about three times that week (see Chapter ??), shows that
spanking is not something that which takes a biased perception of report.
More direct evidence of the link between CP and behavior problems comes from studies
that measured the child behavior problem independently, such as by observing children
interacting with other children (Strassberg, Dodge, Petit and Bates 1994), by using officially
recorded delinquency and crime (McCord, 1991’; 19??), by child-report data on aggression
(Simons, Lin and Gordon 1998), and by administering objective tests to children (see Chapter 9).
G8. The Effect Size Is Too Small To Make A Difference
The importance of ending CP has been challenged by arguing that the correlations
between CP and harmful side effects are so low that ending CP would not make an important
contribution to child well-being (Larzelere, Baumrind and Polite 1998). This defense of CP
ignores the fact that a small effect size is typical of the relation of parent behavior to child
behavior. In fact, it could not be otherwise because, given the multiple influences on a child, no
single risk factor will account for a large percent of the variance in a dependent variable such as
delinquency, depression. For example, parents who were abused have a much greater
probability of abusing or neglecting their own children, but two thirds of abused children do not
continue that pattern with their own children (Kaufman and Zigler 1987). Similarly, two thirds of
pack-a-day and over smokers do not die of smoking related diseases (Matteson, Pollack and
Cullen 1987). The fact that smoking does not explain two thirds of the cases of lung cancer
does not invalidate the conclusion that smoking causes lung cancer. Similarly, if 90% of
spanked children do not manifest harmful effects from spanking, that does not invalidate the
conclusion that spanking causes behavior problems. In addition, the fact that the probability of
growing up to be an abusing parent is greatest for those who have been chronically abused, the
fact that lung cancer is greatest among heavy smokers, and that the probability of behavior
problems is greatest with high frequency spanking, does not mean that occasional physical
abuse, occasional smoking, or occasional spanking is harmless. Perhaps most important is the
well established epidemiological principle that elimination of a risk factor with a small effect size
for a widespread behavior can have a greater impact on health than elimination of a risk factor
that affects a small part of the population (Cohen 1996; Rose 1985; Rosenthal 1984). Corporal
punishment and physical abuse are both risk factors for anti-social behavior. But elimination of
CP could make a greater contribution to lowering the prevalence of depression because it
affects such a large proportion of the population. (For a specific example, see section F7.)
G9. Even Prospective Research Does Not Prove A Causal Relation
Defenders of CP used to be able to argue that the research seeming to show harmful
effects is not worth attention because it is all cross-sectional. They must now retreat to pointing
out that even prospective studies do not prove a causal relationship (??). True enough, but
when there are experimental studies, defenders of CP will probably shift from insisting on
experimental evidence to pointing out that experiments can also be erroneous.
To evaluate this defense of CP one has to understand that methodologists and
philosophers of science generally regard causal inference as a judgment with varying degrees of
confidence. These judgments are on a continuum. At the weak end of the continuum are
inferences from cross sectional data. If there are no statistical controls for possible confounds,
one can only say from a cross sectional study that the findings did not provide data contrary to a
causal theory. This was the limitation of most of the early research on CP. If there are controls
for variables representing key alternative explanations, at least some of the plausible rival
interpretations will have been ruled out and one can therefore have greater confidence that there
is a causal relationship, but hardly proof. That was the situation up to 1997 when the first of the
recent prospective studies was published. Those prospective studies took “temporal order” into
account, i.e., what came first, and that greatly increases the degree of confidence that CP
causes the subsequent behavior problems examined by these studies (see for example,
Chapters ?? and ??). An experiment permits the greatest confidence. There have been some
experimental studies of spanking as a back-up for breaking time-out. They show that non-corporal
methods of enforcing the time-out are just as effective as CP. Unfortunately, there has
not been an experiment on the long-term effects of CP. Such an experiment is possible and
ethical. It can be done by including a no-spanking component for a random half of parents in a
parent-education program. If it found that the no-spanking component led to fewer parents
spanking and that their children were, on average, better behaved and had fewer psychological
problems, it would provide the most definitive evidence of the benefits of ending CP. However,
such a conclusions would still be an inference, not certainty, because artifacts can produce
erroneous findings in experiments as in other types of research.
The attempt to defend CP by insisting on experiments is an example of scientific
absolutism that is inconsistent with the principle that causal inference is a judgment with varying
degrees of confidence, not something that can only be achieved in one way. Much of modern
science would have to be disregarded if only random assignment experiments were valid.
G10. The Results May Be Due To Recall Bias
Recall bias could produce erroneous results if people who have behavior problems are
more likely to recall CP. This is unlikely because numerous studies found that 80 to 95% of
adults recall CP (e.g., Bryan and Freed 1982; MacMillan et al. 1999; Straus 2000a). This means
that adults who recall CP are not restricted to the much smaller proportion of the population who
experience behavior problems such as depression and physical aggression.
More direct evidence against the recall bias argument comes from the five recent studies
reviewed in the concluding Chapter of the 2 nd Edition of Beating The Devil Out Of Them. All five
of these studies used data provided by either the parent or the child at Time 1 of the study.
Thus, the most definitive studies of spanking used data that are not confounded with recall bias.
H. OTHER DEFENSES
H1. The Bible Tells Parents To Spank
Some opponents of spanking believe that the biblical reference to “the rod” refers to a
shepherd’s rod that is used to guide sheep, not to hit them. My less-than-expert knowledge of
the Old Testament leads me to believe that it does refer to CP. In fact, the Old Testament goes
much further than endorsing hitting children with a stick. Leviticus 20.19 says "All who curse
father or mother shall be put to death." Deuteronomy 22.12 says "This son of ours is stubborn
and rebellious. He will not obey us. He is a glutton and a drunkard. Then all men of the town
shall stone him to death."
Parents or religious leaders who justify their use of CP on the basis of believing in a
literal interpretation of the Bible obviously engage in selective literalism because they do not
advocate executing stubborn, rebellious, or gluttonous children. Moreover, they seem to ignore
the New Testament. Jesus was committed to love and forgiveness as both the means and the
end of human relationships. It is hard to imagine Jesus recommending hitting a child as a
means of correction.
H2. We Should Focus on More Crucial Threats To Children Such As Poverty And Racism
Defending CP by pointing out that there are worse things that can happen to children is
analogues to saying that we should focus on heart disease and not worry about broken legs
because more people die of heart disease. Actually, it is even more illogical because in the case
of medical services and medical research, different health problems compete for the same set of
resources. But in the case of CP, pediatricians, psychologists, and parent educators do not
even have the alternative of using their resources to eliminate poverty and racism. Moreover,
advising parents to not spank takes minimal resources, of which the most important is to bring it
up when talking to parents. There are also many other inexpensive and practical ways of getting
a no-spanking message to parents, such as a no-spanking message on milk cartons, and “never
spank” posters and leaflets in maternity wards and physician waiting rooms. These methods
have worked in Sweden (Durrant 1999). I think they will also work in the US. I suspect that a
major reason for not using these approaches doing so is doubt that never-spank is good advice.
CONCLUSION
This chapter examined a large number of defenses of CP and has shown that none of
them stand up to scrutiny. Nevertheless, ending CP faces many obstacles (see Chapter 1 and
(Straus 2000a, Chapters 1 and 10). I will conclude by illustrating the obstacles with one that is
inherent in the behavior of toddlers.
When toddlers are corrected for a misbehavior (such as hitting another child or
disobeying), the “recidivism” rate is about 80% within the same day and about 50% within two
hours. For some children, and for almost all children some of the time, it is within two minutes
(Larzelere et al. 1998; Larzelere, Schneider, Larson and Pike 1996). Moreover, Larzelere found
that these “time to failure” rates apply equally to corporal punishment and to other disciplinary
strategies. Consequently, on any given day, a parent is almost certain to find that so-called
alternative disciplinary strategies such as explaining, deprivation of privileges and time out, “do
not work.” When that happens, they turn to spanking. So, as pointed out several times, just
about everyone (at least 94%) spanks toddlers.
The difference between spanking and other disciplinary strategies is that, when spanking
does not work, parents do not question its effectiveness. The idea that spanking works when
other methods do not is so ingrained in American culture that, when the child repeats the
misbehavior an hour or two later (or sometimes a few minutes later) parents fail to perceive that
spanking has the same high failure rate as other modes of discipline. So they spank again, and
for as many times as it takes to ultimately secure compliance. Persistence in spanking despite
the inevitable repeated failure is graphically illustrated in the study by (Bean and Roberts 1981)
of parents who used spanking to secure compliance with the child remaining in “time out.” The
average number of spankings was 8.3 and the median was 3.5. The median session lasted 22
minutes. Thus, the children in this group were spanked once every 3 minutes until the child did
comply.
What needs to be realized is that it is equally necessary to repeat non-spanking modes
of discipline, such as just placing the child back on the time out chair. As in the case of
spanking, it needs to be done over and over again until the child learns. In short, persistence
and consistency are critically important, but are often missing from everything except spanking.
There is, however, one tremendously important difference between repeating spanking and
repeating non-violent modes of correction and control. Non-violent methods do not have the
harmful side effects of CP demonstrated in this book. But to avoid spanking and its side-effects,
it is critical for parents to be aware of the high short-term failure rates of all modes of
correction and control, and to be committed to never spank when those failures occur. Until that
information and that commitment becomes part of the everyday perspective of parents, parents
will continue to spank, including parents who “do not believe in spanking,” and American children
will continue to suffer the harmful side-effects.
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